When baby born into the world, mom and dad are happy with the newbie in their family which makes family perfect (mom, dad and child). At the same time, when the baby born, dad and mom are expect and hope someday my son or daughter should be like this that and whatsoever.
Every parent will try to give the best life to their children, sending them to school in order to get the best education, hoping their children to have success careers and highest job positions so they might “label” as “high rank” people.
I have asked ten parents and eight out of ten said yes, they has high expectation with their children. I tried to write this post in parent view and the children, themselves. When baby born into the world, parent wish the baby to be healthy and happy, they give the best nurturing and caring with unlimited love to the baby. When the baby isn’t baby anymore but grow up as kid, parent send the kid to school in order to get education so they will have a brighter future. After graduated and finished from school, the kid now become mature as young man or young lady. Parent don’t stop to expect, they even asked for more towards the children. They are expecting the children to have good job with good position (which makes these parent proud)
I really understand what parent wish for their children by expecting this and that because whatever parent expect from the children, all just for the sake of the children own-goodness. Every moves that made by parent towards their children is based on their love, caring and unlimited love.
Most of the problems are “every moves” that made by parent for their children which parent think it’s good for the children sometimes is not really a good moves and decision for the children, their-self.
As a children, we have our own thought on what we want to be, what we want to do because we have our own future picture in our mind. Sometimes, parent said this good for the children but for the children, that isn’t the good choice.
“Good intention does always be view as good”
According to me, why don’t parent stop to expect this and that to their children. Rather than forcing the children to do what they are not really want (even for their good), parent should just pray and bless whatever the children want (every positive moves) and for the children is will be a big chance to pay off what parent have scarified everything they done, why don’t try to achieve one or two of what parent expect from us, their children.
well, this is the end of my today post. I hope you guys get something from it.
have a nice day
much love
bye 🙂 🙂
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